Monday, December 9, 2024

Not in My Book - Review

Not In My Book

By: Katie Holt

Publication: December 10, 2024 by Alcove Press

320 pages

Genre: Adult, Contemporary

Source: Publisher via Edelweiss (Thank you!!)

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Goodreads description--The Hating Game meets Beach Read in this sexy and hilarious contemporary romance from a debut Peruvian-Tennessean voice.

Rosie, an idealistic and passionate Peruvian-American who has grown up without strong ties to her culture, leaves her Tennessee hometown to pursue her dream of making it in New York as a writer. But her plan is derailed when she ends up in class with her arch-nemesis and ex-crush, Aiden Huntington—an obnoxious, surly, and gorgeous literary fiction writer who doesn’t have much patience for the romance genre, or for Rosie.

Rosie and Aiden regularly go to verbal battle in workshop until their professor reaches her breaking point. She allows them to stay in her class on one condition: they must co-write a novel that blends their genres.

The reluctant writing duo can’t help but put pieces of themselves into their accidentally steamy novel, and as they slowly get to know each other, they try to put their differences aside. Meanwhile, their manuscript-in-progress provides an outlet for them to confess their feelings—and explore their attraction toward each other.

When Rosie and Aiden find themselves competing against each other for a potentially career-changing opportunity, the flames of old rivalry reignite, and their once-in-a-lifetime love story is once again at risk of being shelved—unless they can find a way to end the book on their own terms.

I don't often read a book and say the description was 100% on point. But the description for Not in My Book tells you pretty much everything you need to know about what happens in this book. As stated, Rosie is doing her best to get her degree, but she can only afford to take one class at a time. She's also working a part-time job every spare moment (except the weekends). And she's writing in her off time as her dream is to become an author. But she's been struggling to be vulnerable in her writing. She needs this class. To begin with, she worked hard to get into this class. She really respects the teacher. Rosie also reluctantly admits that Aiden is a talented author. She saw him read a piece of his writing before they officially met, and she immediately developed a crush on him. He was cute and talented. But when they are in a previous class together, Aiden responds negatively to Rosie's preferred genre--romance--and boundary lines formed marking them both clearly in enemy territory. Now, their repeated disruptions of heated arguments in class have the professor ready to force them both to drop the class. Reluctantly, Rosie and Aiden agree to work together on their writing project for this class. The criteria is that they must have a romance with a literary fiction ending--meaning no happily ever after. 

This book was so fun. The banter between Rosie and Aiden was on another level. I mean heated. And the tension was so thick you could cut it with a butter knife. I loved seeing how uncomfortable Aiden was with trying to write a romance. Yet, Rosie annoyed me because she was even more against literary fiction and stories that end unhappy or unresolved. There was one scene in particular that was so intense because the two of them wrote it together. If you've read the book then you know the one. And this is coming from someone who has a lower tolerance level for explicit scenes.

Favorite quotes:

-Aiden had an annoying editorial eye that ended up making everyone around him a better writer.

-There's so much more to a romance than just love.

-I wanted the kind of love you treated gently, like it could break. The kind that was intense and real. The kind you fought for, not against.

-"We get close but not close enough to get burned, right?"

-The best part of my day was fighting with him.

-"When I am in love, I don't want to have to wonder, if it's love, you know? I want to know with certainty that there is nothing else I would rather feel."

-I just...wanted to be loved so badly that I thought being hurt was part of the deal.

-"What do you want for Christmas?" .... "Right now I feel like I have everything I need."

-"You know, ever since your family arrived, you've developed a southern accent."

-"Love wouldn't seem worth it without the risk of losing it."

-The love I had read in romance novels was so epic and monumental. I'd spent a lifetime craving grand gestures and sweeping proclamations. I hadn't known the small moments like this would feel as good.

Any other quotes are spoilers. 

I did notice a few small inconsistencies. For example, at one point Aiden criticizes the phrase often used in romance "eyes darkening" and he wonders what that even is. But in one of his sections of writing for the joint project, he uses the same phrase. I don't know if this was an accident. Like, it was overlooked by the editing. Or if this was done purposefully to show that he's grown as an author to include things he never once would have considered. But I lean toward the first option as he didn't seem willing to compromise what he considers good writing to fit a specific genre. I think there was another small inconsistency, but I didn't see it highlighted when I went back to look so I can't remember. 

Overall, I devoured Not in My Book. I've read several books now that focus on the love of writing in various forms. I have adored them all. But Not in My Book was focused on a love for the romance genre, as well as writing in general. And I'm here for it. Not in My Book gets 4.5 Stars and is easily one of my favorite reads of 2024. Have you read Not in My Book? What did you think? Let me know!

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Sunday Post - 12/8/24

The Sunday Post is a weekly meme hosted by Kimba @ The Caffeinated Book Reviewer ~this meme was inspired in part by ~ In My Mailbox~ It's a chance to share News. A post to recap the past week, showcase books and things we have received and share news about what is coming up for the week on our blog.

Monday it was hard to get back into our routine after being off school for Thanksgiving week. But Tuesday, Husband took off work, and we took the kids to see Santa. We always let them shop for us and each other after that. We call it "sibling shopping." They did the best this year out of all years past. Wednesday it was again hard to get back into the routine of school. We are all feeling the Christmas-break-itis. Thursday, we had co-op. And that was probably our best co-op day so far also. The kids are finally getting used to that being our normal Thursday. Friday was a good day. I did end up taking the kids to Walmart after getting Little Boy from mother's day out to pick up some things for goodie bags for his class. Of course, it's always a bigger ordeal when the kids go inside with me. Saturday, we went to Anniston to our annual family reunion and dirty Santa ornament swap. That was a good day and nice visit as well. This is a super busy season for us, but I love it--even if I'm not in as festive of a moood as some years. I did finish two books this week (in like two days). So I've gotten a good bit of reading done lately.

THE PAST WEEK

Monday: Review of A Yorkshire Carol (A Christmas Match, # 3) by Jennie Goutet (4 Stars)
Wednesday: Can't Wait for Rules for Ruin (The Crinoline Academy, # 1) by Mimi Matthews
Thursday: Review of ADHD is Awesome by Penn & Kim Holderness (5 Stars)
Friday: Homeschool Friday - Go, Go, Go

UPCOMING THIS WEEK:

Monday: Review of Not in My Book by Katie Holt
Tuesday: Top Ten Tuesday?
Wednesday: Can't Wait for Wednesday?
Thursday: Review of A Dawn of Gods and Fury (Fate & Flame, # 4) by KA Tucker
Friday: Homeschool Friday - Go Away, Spot

Don’t forget to link up for the 2024 Series Enders Reading Challenge! You have until December 15th, 2024 to sign up. Each month there will be a giveaway for those participating with an end of the year giveaway too! Click on the picture below or the link above to find out more!

NEW BOOKS:

No new books to feature this week.

That's it for my shelves and recaps of my past and upcoming week. What did you add to your shelves this week? Any bookish news you want to talk about? Let me know!

Friday, December 6, 2024

Homeschool Friday - Go, Go, Go

Homeschool Friday is a feature here at Somewhere Only We Know that showcases books my family reads during homeschool and provides a mini-review for each.

Go, Go, Go

By: Marjorie Blain Parker

Publication: September 1, 2004 by Spotlight

32 pages

Genre: Children's, Level-1 Readers, Early Reading

Source: Personal Library

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Goodreads description--A collection of reissued stories with simple vocabulary featuring Dick, Jane, and other familiar characters.

I've mentioned before that many of the Step-1 or Level-1 readers we have are published by Scholastic or Random House. They typically consist of 32 pages with one or two short sentences per page or opening. Go, Go, Go is a Read with Dick and Jane book originally published in 1956s. And well, things have changed a good bit since then. This book is 32 pages, but each page is filled with multiple sentences--sometimes up to 7 sentences per page. And while this isn't an abundance, my now 7-year-old gets quickly overwhelmed when he sees paragraphs or what is to him many words on one page. He intended to read this book in parts, like half now and half another day. But I kind of tricked him into reading the entire thing in one sitting--which he is completely capable of.

Go, Go, Go is filled with repetitive words and phrases. The stories don't rhyme necessarily, but they do promote mastery. You can tell by the words used in the book as well as the illustrations that this was written many years ago. But I don't think newer is always better. If this is the level-1 readers of 1956, our 32 pages with 2 sentences a page seems a little piddly.

Go, Go, Go gets 4 Stars. I liked that many of the same words and phrases were used throughout the book to promote mastery. And I also liked that this book was a bit more of a challenge to my son who gets easily overwhelmed. It wasn't the words themselves that were challenging, but simply seeing so many words on one page was the challenge. Have you or your child read Go, Go, Go? What did you think? Let me know!

Thursday, December 5, 2024

ADHD is Awesome - Review

ADHD is Awesome

By: Penn & Kim Holderness

Publication: April 30, 2024 by Harper Horizon

292 pages

Genre: Adult, Nonfiction, Parenting, Self-Help, Psychology, Mental Health

Source: Borrowed from the e-Library

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Goodreads description--Hi, friend! Welcome to the ADHD club.

You're here because, like me, you've been diagnosed with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder—which, by the way, just might be the worst name for a condition ever—and you're trying to figure out how to make your life a little more manageable. Or because, like my wife, Kim, you love, teach, or work with someone who has ADHD, and you're trying to figure out how to best support them.

The world isn't built for ADHDers, and navigating it can wear us down. But we'll let you in on a little secret: having ADHD doesn't have to be a burden. It can actually be a superpower that propels you to creative heights and allows you to achieve more than you ever thought possible.

We want to give you a new perspective on ADHD, whether it's your own brain or a friend or family member's that you're trying to understand. We hope you come away with strategies you can employ to make things a little easier. (We also hope you laugh out loud, at least once or twice.)

Most of all, we want you to silence that voice that whispers that you're broken or a mess or a failure. None of that is true. You have ADHD—and that makes you awesome.

—Penn Holderness

My almost seven-year-old son has not been officially diagnosed with ADHD, but he has a lot of indications that he might have ADHD. He, more than my other two children, has prompted me to study and learn about child development. I just haven't figured out why he struggles so much in a few key areas. When his Pre-K4/MDO teacher suggested he might have ADHD at the age of 5, I immediately rejected the idea and thought he was just being a boy and boys having trouble sitting still and such. Well, fast forward about 2 years, and I've done a good bit more research, plus had more time to observe him, and I think she might be right. So much of  ADHD and what he's going through seems negative. When I came across a video by The Holderness Family about ADHD, Penn talked about the book they co-wrote called ADHD is Awesome. I immediately added it to my TBR list. Thankfully, the e-library got a copy of the audiobook, and I jumped on it to listen.

I am so thankful for Penn and Kim writing this book. Penn shares his experiences of having "a raging case of ADHD" with this book. Having an adult be able to describe what happens in his own brain helps me so much to relate to my son. I've never understood why he can never remember where his shoes are or why an item ceases to exist in his brain when he puts it down. How he can not remember so much has always baffled me. And I've often thought and even accused him of lying to me. And I can easily say that doing so has damaged our relationship. Penn's candor has provided me with some relief. Similar to the relief he felt after being diagnosed. I feel relief in learning more about and understanding more about things my child struggles with or deals with and how his brain works. I cried. Multiple times. From guilt over how I've handled things in the past, sadness over the struggles he has and why everything feels harder for him, hope for the future, and fear for the same. 

Penn and Kim do a wonderful job of presenting ADHD as it is. They don't sugarcoat things. Penn's struggles and the negative side of having ADHD are there in all its ugliness. But there are positives to having ADHD or being close to someone who has ADHD, and those positives are essentially never pointed out. They want everyone to know that it isn't all bad. And I can so appreciate that. As someone whose child is still very young, I feel like we have an uphill battle in front of us, but there is hope. They offer coping strategies. This was one of the most practically applicable books I've ever read on a similar topic (not ADHD specifically). I appreciate that so much. And I appreciate Penn and Kim Holderness for putting this book out there. I needed it. And I'm sure so many others do too.

The humor kept the topics light enough that this didn't feel like a heavy book even though I was quite emotional through portions of it. I suppose if it were heavy or dull the ADHD brain would abandon it, most likely. Penn definitely wrote with other ADHDers in mind. 

I also loved the discussion of the name ADHD, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. The name truly doesn't describe the condition. And that contributes to the condition being so highly misunderstood. Addressing the misconceptions around ADHD was really helpful for me, and it helped me see that I had a lot of unfounded preconceived ideas of what ADHD is that are completely false. 

I can tell you that I would have had way too many quotes highlighted if I'd read this on my Kindle, but since I listened to the audiobook, I don't have any to share. I will tell you that I will 100% get a physical or digital copy of this book to have for myself to read again and probably even more than once. The audiobook version is wonderful being narrated by Penn and Kim directly. I don't know how much sidebar-type stuff they added to the physical book. It almost seemed like some things were added in their audio narration that wouldn't be in a physical copy, but I couldn't tell you that for sure without comparing the two. But their narration made the audiobook fun and easy to listen to (the goal). The only reason I want a physical copy for myself and not the audio version to own is that finding a passage for reference would be much easier in a physical copy. 

If you have ADHD or have a loved one with ADHD, I think you should definitely check out ADHD is Awesome by Penn and Kim Holderness. If nothing else, you can commiserate with someone who understands your struggles. ADHD is Awesome gets 5 Stars from me. Have you read (or listened to) ADHD is Awesome? What did you think? Let me know!

P.S. I have purchased a digital copy for Kindle since writing this review.

Wednesday, December 4, 2024

Can't Wait for Rules for Ruin

Can't-Wait Wednesday is a weekly meme hosted by Wishful Endings to spotlight and talk about the books we're excited about that we have yet to read. Generally they're books that have yet to be released as well. It's based on Waiting on Wednesday, hosted by the fabulous Jill at Breaking the Spine. Find out more here.

Rules for Ruin (The Crinoline Academy, # 1)

By: Mimi Matthews

Expected Publication: May 20, 2025 by Berkley

400 pages

Genre: Adult, Historical Fiction, Victorian

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Goodreads description--No one betrays the Academy. But now Euphemia must decide: break the rules for her enemy, or let the rules break her heart.

On the outskirts of London sits a seemingly innocuous institution with a secretive aim—train young women to distract, disrupt, and discredit the patriarchy. Outraged by a powerful politician’s systematic attack on women’s rights, the Academy summons its brightest—and most bitter—pupil to infiltrate the odious man’s inner circle. A deal is struck: bring down the viscount, and Miss Euphemia Flite will finally earn her freedom.

But betting shop owner Gabriel Royce has other plans. The viscount is the perfect pawn to insulate Gabriel’s underworld empire from government interference. He’s not about to let some crinoline-clad miss destroy his carefully constructed enterprise—no matter how captivating he finds her threats.

From the rookeries of St. Giles to the ballrooms of Mayfair, Euphemia and Gabriel engage in a battle of wits and wills that’s complicated by a blossoming desire. Soon Euphemia realizes it’s not the broken promises to her Academy sisters she should fear. . . . It’s the danger to her heart.

What are you guys waiting on this week? Let me know!