Monday, May 13, 2013

Someday, Someday, Maybe by Lauren Graham - Review

Someday, Someday, Maybe

By: Lauren Graham

Published: April 30th 2013 by Ballantine Books

352 pages

Genre: Adult Fiction

Source: Publisher via NetGalley (Thank you!!)

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Goodreads description--From Lauren Graham, the beloved star of Gilmore Girls and Parenthood, comes a witty, charming, and hilariously relatable debut novel about a struggling young actress trying to get ahead―and keep it together―in New York City.

It’s January 1995, and Franny Banks has just six months left of the three-year deadline she set for herself when she came to New York, dreaming of Broadway and doing “important” work. But all she has to show for her efforts so far is a part in an ad for ugly Christmas sweaters, and a gig waiting tables at a comedy club. Her roommates―her best friend Jane, and Dan, an aspiring sci-fi writer―are supportive, yet Franny knows a two-person fan club doesn’t exactly count as success. Everyone tells her she needs a backup plan, and though she can almost picture moving back home and settling down with her perfectly nice ex-boyfriend, she’s not ready to give up on her goal of having a career like her idols Diane Keaton and Meryl Streep. Not just yet. But while she dreams of filling their shoes, in the meantime, she’d happily settle for a speaking part in almost anything—and finding a hair product combination that works.

Everything is riding on the upcoming showcase for her acting class, where she’ll finally have a chance to perform for people who could actually hire her. And she can’t let herself be distracted by James Franklin, a notorious flirt and the most successful actor in her class, even though he’s suddenly started paying attention. Meanwhile, her bank account is rapidly dwindling, her father wants her to come home, and her agent doesn’t return her calls. But for some reason, she keeps believing that she just might get what she came for.

Someday, Someday, Maybe is a story about hopes and dreams, being young in a city, and wanting something deeply, madly, desperately. It’s about finding love, finding yourself, and perhaps most difficult of all in New York City, finding an acting job.

I requested Someday, Someday, Maybe because I really love Lauren Graham in Gilmore Girls and in Parenthood. And really I wanted to be a part of her new venture into writing. I think it's awesome that Lauren Graham's character on Parenthood just started tinkering with writing as well. I don't know if they went in that direction because of her real life or if that was planned out all along. Either way, really neat. I also wonder how much of Lauren Graham's life is molded into Franny and her life. "They" say it's easiest to write what you know, right? Anyway...just curious.

Speaking of Franny, she was an easily relate-able character. Franny begins the book with some super self-esteem issues. And she's super analytical, which I love because that's pretty much how I am. Franny's constantly questioning herself, her decisions, her talent, her appearance. Pretty much any aspect of herself that can be questioned is. More than anything Franny wants to be validated. She wants to know that she's not fooling herself into thinking that she can make a career out of acting. And I don't think anyone can blame Franny for having the thoughts that she has. She's quirky, sarcastic, and a bit clumsy. She reminds me of exactly the type of character that Lauren Graham portrays in her own acting roles.

I prefer female lead characters that I read about to be a bit stronger emotionally than Franny initially is. Yet the entire book is about the character growth that Franny experiences, so that makes all of the insecurities not only real but extremely worth it and valuable to read about. Franny doesn't stay in this place of low self-esteem and criticism. She learns to love herself for who she is...quirks and all.

Nothing in the story line was particularly surprising or unpredictable, but I enjoyed the story just the same. I don't read too many stories about aspiring actresses so it was just different enough to keep my interest. I definitely enjoyed this look into what a competitive world Franny desires to be in and how difficult just getting a start in it can be. Something I'd never thought about before was how frantic actors and actresses are to become established, yet taking just any and every job that comes their way could be the very thing that brings their careers to a screeching halt. You just never really know.

I enjoyed this debut novel by Lauren Graham even more than I expected to. While I was initially excited to experience this book, I also wasn't overly thrilled about the concept. Someday, Someday, Maybe proved to be more than I expected and would definitely recommend it to others for a light read about a character willing to grow and open to learning. Someday, Someday, Maybe gets a well-deserved 3.5 stars from me. Have you read Someday, Someday, Maybe? What did you think? Let me know!

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Sunday Post - 44 & Stacking the Shelves - 17

The Sunday Post is a weekly meme hosted by Kimba @ The Caffeinated Book Reviewer ~this meme was inspired in part by ~ In My Mailbox~ It's a chance to share News. A post to recap the past week, showcase books and things we have received and share news about what is coming up for the week on our blog.

This has been a busy week. Wednesday was our 4th anniversary (wedding not blog). It's been a great four years, and my husband is still my best friend. Back in February he gifted me with an early anniversary present--a dishwasher! WHOOOHOOO!!! And so we really took things easy--big financial goals to accomplish and all of that jazz. Oh and can't forget that today is Mother's Day. We're taking my mother-in-law out to dinner tonight and then taking my mother Tuesday night. Busy busy.

THIS PAST WEEK:

Monday: Review of The Secret of Ella and Micha by Jessica Sorensen (4.5 Stars)

Tuesday: Top 10 Books When I Need Light & Fun

Wednesday: Waiting on While You Were Here

Thursday: Review of Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs (4 Stars)

UPCOMING THIS WEEK:

Monday: Review of Someday, Someday, Maybe by Lauren Graham (yes that Lauren Graham...Gilmore Girls and Parenthood Lauren Graham. Now author Lauren Graham.)

Tuesday: Top 10 Tuesday: Dealing with Tough Subjects

Wednesday: Waiting on Wednesday

Thursday: Review of The Eternity Cure (Blood of Eden, # 2) by Julie Kagawa

Friday: May or may not do a High Five for Friday post.

Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Tynga's Reviews.

If I Stay (If I Stay, # 1)

By: Gayle Forman

Published: April 2nd 2009 by Dutton Juvenile

201 pages

Genre: YA, Contemporary

Source: Borrowed from my local library

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Goodreads description--In a single moment, everything changes. Seventeen-year-old Mia has no memory of the accident; she can only recall riding along the snow-wet Oregon road with her family. Then, in a blink, she finds herself watching as her own damaged body is taken from the wreck...

A sophisticated, layered, and heart-achingly beautiful story about the power of family and friends, the choices we all make, and the ultimate choice Mia commands.

That's it for my shelves and recaps of my past and upcoming week. What did you add to your shelves this week? Any bookish news you want to talk about? Let me know!

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Love & Respect - Review

Love and Respect

By: Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

Published: September 7th 2004 by Thomas Nelson Publishers (first published 2004)

336 pages

Genre: Non-fiction, Marriage, Christian

Source: Borrowed from my friend, Kay

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Goodreads description--A Marriage Book with a Difference!

A Revolutionary Message"I've been married 35 years and have not heard this taught.""This is the key that I have been missing.""You connected all the dots for me.""As a counselor, I have never been so excited about any material.""You're on to something huge here."

A Simple Message A wife has one driving need--to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need--to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn't met, things get crazy." Love and Respect "reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily, and biblically.

A Message That Works Based on over three decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, have already taken the "Love and Respect "message across America and are changing the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. What do you want for your marriage? Want some peace? Want to feel close? Want to feel valued? Want to experience marriage the way God intended? Then why not try some Love and Respect.

I have one friend who consistently reads any "self-help" book I recommend to her. She'll occasionally read fiction books that I recommend, but mostly she doesn't have a lot of time to read and so when she does, she makes it a book that's going to help her improve herself. As a result, if there's ever a time where she recommends a book to me, I'm all over it. And that's the case with Love & Respect.

As soon as she was finished with it, she passed it on to me. And I finished it in two days. Love & Respect, as broken down by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, helped me to look at the relationship of husband and wife from the scriptural standpoint of Ephesian 5:22-33 in a whole new way. For me, Dr. Eggerichs' explanation was surprising and obvious all at the same time. My friend and I had commented before about how in this very passage God commands the husband to love his wife and the wife to respect her husband because that's what each sex struggles with the most. Women typically respond emotionally--love--whereas men need respect. While feeling like an idiot for not seeing the forest for the trees, Dr. Eggerichs really breaks down these two concepts in a way that's easy to understand and easy to put into action.

I truly enjoyed this book. It was a fast read for me and had an easy to understand message that I can see myself putting into practice in my everyday life. I'd easily give this book 4 stars. At the same time, I thought I'd take this opportunity to let you hear from a reader who is more enthusiastic about it's affect on her life. Even though I've enjoyed the book and gotten a lot out of it, she's enjoyed it and gotten even more out of it than I have. So without further ado, here's a mini-review/guest post from my friend, Kay.

This book was given to me by my mother and sat at the bottom of a stack of overdue need to dos. I decided to read it at a time when I felt my marriage was going through a less-than-strong moment. I had tried so many other ways to “fix” my marriage and thought, what’s one more book gonna do? I was not prepared for what I was about to read.

I threw up so many walls in the beginning because well, first of all it’s written by a man. And secondly, because he was stepping all over my feet. But I decided to finish the book so it wouldn’t be added back to my long list of to dos. And the end result was life changing.

The author speaks from God’s word and helped me realize that I can only control my thoughts, my actions, my rebuttals. No matter how my husband may act about something; even if it is unloving, it is in my control to react in a kind, loving and respectful way. It has been a very hard thing for me to do--show respect when I feel anything but love. And I am still working on it every day. But I can testify to this, the power you feel and the results you will see from showing your husband respect, outweigh any “win” over any argument.

“The one who is the most mature, will start the process first”.

Have you read Love & Respect? What did you think? Let me know!

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Waiting on When You Were Here

"Waiting On" Wednesday is a weekly event, hosted by Breaking the Spine, that spotlights upcoming releases that we're eagerly anticipating.

When You Were Here

By: Daisy Whitney

Expected Publication: June 4th 2013 by Little, Brown

257 pages

Genre: YA, Contemporary

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Goodreads description--Filled with humor, raw emotion, a strong voice, and a brilliant dog named Sandy Koufax, When You Were Here explores the two most powerful forces known to man-death and love. Daisy Whitney brings her characters to life with a deft touch and resonating authenticity.

Danny's mother lost her five-year battle with cancer three weeks before his graduation-the one day that she was hanging on to see.

Now Danny is left alone, with only his memories, his dog, and his heart-breaking ex-girlfriend for company. He doesn't know how to figure out what to do with her estate, what to say for his Valedictorian speech, let alone how to live or be happy anymore.

When he gets a letter from his mom's property manager in Tokyo, where she had been going for treatment, it shows a side of his mother he never knew. So, with no other sense of direction, Danny travels to Tokyo to connect with his mother's memory and make sense of her final months, which seemed filled with more joy than Danny ever knew. There, among the cherry blossoms, temples, and crowds, and with the help of an almost-but-definitely-not Harajuku girl, he begins to see how it may not have been ancient magic or mystical treatment that kept his mother going. Perhaps, the secret of how to live lies in how she died.

Sounds emotional...I'm for it. What are you waiting on this week? Let me know!

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Top 10 Books When I Need Light and Fun

Top 10 Tuesday is a post hosted by The Broke and the Bookish and this week's topic is Top Ten Books When I Need Light and Fun.

This is a really easy topic for me. All top 10 books go to one series...

STEPHANIE PLUM by Janet Evanovich - I haven't read all of these, but the ones I have read usually have my laughing out loud.

Which books do you go to when you need light and fun? Let me know!